Wensday August 13, 2008
Just to up to date everyone..... We have gotten everything we needed to get for the wedding, have it all planned out, if it does or does not go as well as planned is another story. The guys have to go get their tuxs, and I have to get the food and that will that. My mom is hereuntil after the wedding to help me with things, and to keep my head srewed on stright. I am still very scared about the whole thing, but thinking as it gets closer I will be fine.
The kids start school in 3 days, and I soooo can not wait !!!!!! They are going ot be going ot another school this year and that is bitter sweet. But they are so excited to be going back.
Tim has been havin a few hard days at work, and been a bit stressed out, and I am sure the stress of the wedding is not helping to much either, but he is such a trooper.
I can not wait for the day to just hurry up and get here !!!!
more updates soon.
Who would have thought that planning for a wedding would be such an emotional, and stressful thing. I have been standing beside my self for a couple of weeks now, wondering if this is the right thing to do.... a great thing to be thinking about just weeks before a wedding I know. I am searching for a garentee that this will be a marriage I will not regret, and that will not end in a divorce..... and I am learning the hard way there is no such thing. I know it is normal to have wedding jitters but this feels so much more than that.... a wise person told me that if I was going to run away from it all i would have already, maybe that is true. I have pretty much so put everything on hold until I could clear my head some....however you can not put time on hold.
Guess everyone can second guess her self, and in the event of a life changing event like this second guess alll the desions of her life....so I am just going with the flow right now.
The kids are doing good, and getting excited about starting school again soon. Shayla is tring so hard to talk more, but for some reason her words does not come out the way she wants them too.... it is so cute in a way. Kedin and Justin have been playing their video games, and hanging out at home with their friends.
We went over to my Adoptie mom, and her son's house, and they just let loose, and had a ball. I truly have out door children !!!!
I still have so much to do before the wedding, only got my dress, and my bridal party's dresses, and a few decorations. Guess I need to pick up my speed some.
Tim is same ol Tim, he never changes much.....work work work. Guess work has been stressing him out alot, and it is dragging him down.
I guess that is about all for now.
July 16, 2008 I really need to start updating this website a bit more often than I do.... guess I have fallen a bit behind..... sorry everyone... BIG NEWS !!!
ME AND TIM ARE GETTING MARRIED !!!!!
As many of you knew we was going to have a Vegas wedding, and it just be the 2 of us, well now it is is in tampa, and in about 5 weeks. Planning has been a bit stressful, concidering I am on $4,000 budget, and was told only 6 weeks before. ((((((( Note: Georgie & Richard...I really want you there but can not get ahold of you.... email me please
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)))))) The date is Friday August 22, 2008 at 6 pm.
The kids have been having fun this summer. We have a pool up that I convneced Tim to buy, and as luck has it is was an awsome investment. I got Tim a Nintendo Wii for Fathers day, and that is also something they are loving to do. It is really late right now..... I will update more in the next day or so.
March 15, 2008
WHAT A WEEK !!!! First Shayla was in the hospital, they thought she might have Cemeniella Posioning...... turns out she did not. Then I recived a phone call from my mother that they was taking my baby sister brandy to med express. That clinic could not see her cause her oxegen was like 58% and was supost to be at 100% so they sent her by ambulance to the hospital where they omitted her. They said she asperated into her lungs, and also had a bad cause of Amoniona. The second night there they gave her meds for anixity attacks, and by the next morning she was taken to the ICU....the meds made her non responicive. While in ICU they had her on the breathing machine, and oxgen mask off and on, and also gave her some blood. Today she finally went back on to the floor room, but has 2 nursers tending to her. I flew out of course to be with my mother, and was there for 5 days. I took the baby, and Tim kept the boys. When I got back home it was 10 pm tuesday night. I just regrouped on Wensday, and did not even un pack... Finally got up to do dinner, and wanted to do something simple, so hambgers and fries it was, that simple ended up cooking my house....I caught my kicten on fire. It was the first time I had ever had a fire, or had to call 911. I burned my hands, and got alot of smoke into my lungs, but am fine, the kitchen hoever did not come out so lucky. The fire was bad, but when all was said and done, and I looked in my kitchen it was not as bad as I thought it was. All above the stove is burned, and the sink, and above the sink. We cleaned it all up today, and got a new sink, and wow is that black stuff hard to clean off of walls. We have to re paint the dinning room as well due to smoke damange as well. All I can say is I am glad the week is finally over !!!!
Monday January 14, 2008
About a week ago I went over to my best freind's house with the kids. While I was there Tim fixed an electrical problem we had outside the house, and was going to fix the boy's bathroom. The watre in their tub had suck low pressure, and never got hot. When he did this he found that a main line was broken, and was running water all under the house. So in order to for this, he had to take and re do all the lines, and that involved him having to take out the vanity and wall mirror in our bathroom, and the wall. It has been a mess. We got a red dumpster in the back yard that tim brought home so I have been going through the house and spring cleaning. The biggest i have done so far is take the boys carpet out, and layed tile floor in their room. I am hopint the tile goes longer than the carpet ! I did not think I would like it, but I really do, and the boys love it.
Yesterday, Justin's lil brother Bill Jr. came over to our house for the day for the first time, and it was also the first time, me Kedin & Shayla have met him or his Dad Bill Sr.
We had a load of fun. Bill Jr. is the cutest 3 year old, and reminds me alot of Justin at 3. Kedin was glad to have a playmate, and Shayla loved playing with him too. Bill Sr. brought over this huge remote control truck, and wow did the boys have a ball playing with that ! Bill Sr. is pretty cool.... he seems like an awsome Dad, and a great person...you sure can tell he is the apple of his son's eye. We can not wait to have Bill Jr. back over for another play date.
I ordered the kids school picutres.... I did a flad background for both, howver i think i might have messed up on Ked's not sure. They will also be doing the class picture on the the same day, and I am getting on for each class. I will let you all know when the pictures are in, and start handing them out.... I got the smallest package though.
The boys are riding their bikes too school now....I feel like it could be a death sentace everytime I take them to school and pick them up. The bike is a bit too big for Justin...he rides it good, however getting started off on it, and stopping on it is a challange. I can not lower the seat no more, and hoping he will be able to just adjust to it, and get use to it, and be fine. Kedin does good on his bike over all, however... he wants to be a speed demon, and wants to knock Justin out of the way, and this is so funny to him. Kedin is use to only riding the bike in the back yard... so this is fun with him on a side walk....he is tring to listen better and follow my directions....meanwhile I am still on my bike with the tralor in the back that i haul shayla in. She has now learned how to un strap her self, and tries to get out while I am in route. Yeah....these trips get intresting....lol.
January 6, 2008
WOW..... I sure am slacking on updating this site huh. I am so sorry, just been so busy !!!!! So what have we all been up to?????
Christmas was a blast. we had my Mom, StepDad Rick, Baby Sister Brandy, Brother Brandon, his Wife Misty, Their 2 kids Billy & Cassy, My Twin Kevin, My Baby brother JD and his Wife Alichia, all come down from up north for the Christmas holiday for 3 days. As an extra for Christmas, me and Tim paid for their vans, got gifts for everyone, stockings, and provided sleeping space, and food, so no money had to be spent on their trip. This was extra special for me concidering this was the first year the whole family has ever been toghter for any holiday. You could tell my Mothers was so excited to have all 5 kids with her.
Shayla ended up cutting her molars on x mas eve night so she was not feeling well on that night or on Christmas. The boys thought they was in Heaven with all the kids to play with.
Justin is doing ok in school, smart as they come, but starting to get lazy in everything. He is finding the fasst , easiest way to get any thing and everything done, and just doing it all half way. Keding is doing better in school, he knows all his months, can cout to 10+ and knows his ABC's and some sight words. I think the only thing he was really having problems with is writting....but that can have alot to do with his fine motor skills.... so I am doing my own OP Theoropy at home to help with his hand movements.
Shayla is on a role. She is just like me.... and that is such a scarey thing. She has a temper like no other, and so sassy! Over all she is a happy baby , and loves to laugh and smile, but also gets into everything, and so fearless.
I have been working on my wedding plans. Right now we are going to be going to Vegas August 18, 2008-August 23, 2008. We will be joined by My Mom, and her boyfriend Rick. The kids will all be staying with my sister in law.
August 18-21 we will be enjoying Downtown Las Vegas, and staying at The Golden Nugget Hotel & Casino. On the 21st we will then move over the the Vegas Strip, and ber staying in The Spa Deluxe Suits at the NY NY Hotel & Casino. One the 21st me and my Mother will be going to get our nails done. On August 22, 2006 me and my mom will be getting our hair and makeup done by professinals in our hotel room, and then at 4:30 pm be getting picked up by a limo to take us to our wedding chaple. There we will pick our wedding gowns out, and veils, and dhoes, and what nots, and getting ready to be married. A limo will then pick the guys up, and they will be fitted for their tuxs. At 6pm...me and Tim will be getting married, and at 7pm, My Mom and rick will be getting married, we will be witnessing each others.
We will have candle light ceromony, as well as a DVD of each wedding, and pictures. We all will then leave in a limo to go back to our hotel for the honey moon. We are also going to be going to see places like the Grand Canyon, and such. To say the least I can not wait !!!!
Well that is all for right now, will update soon.
October was alot of fun.... we had so many birthdays, and went to see my in laws, and lets not forget about halloween. Justin is doing good in school, Kedin is having some problems, but we kinda knew he would... I am checking into so diffrent options for him, and might place him in a special needs school. Shayla is a trip. She is learning a whole lot, and starting to talk alot more.
September 25, 2007
Wow...being a mom is sure getting to be one heck of a job. If the kids are flat out not listening then they are tring to kill one another. I yell at them, and time out them to try and refrain myself from spanking them, but nothing works, and now when you spank them, they just laugh at ya. Never did I think i would be a mom where the kids ruled my life, but it seems to be going in that direction. I stand my ground with them, and do what all i feel I need to be doing, and it all has worked until the last month or so, and things have just went crazy on me....even the baby is getting in the mix of it all.
I started back helping at the school on mondays, just to get out of the house for a bit..... hoping I do not get as wore out from it this year as I did last year. Shayla is still not wanting to sit on the potty..... hoewever has no problem running around without a diaper on, and as soon as I put one on her she takes it off...... go figure.....I have found myself resorting to duck tape....lol.
The new fish hobby is not going so great ,....have lost about 10 fish in 2 weeks now.... the tanks are still cycling, so hoping once it is sone with that all will be better.....((((crossing fingers)))),
Other than the kids driving me nutts and hobby going down the drain, and finding any way to do something with my time, everything else is about the same.
I am going to try and take some pictures of the kids here soon, I did not relize I have not been taking any.
We are going to be going up north in a week or two, want to see the leaves all diffrent colors....(((do not get to see that here is Florida))) so getting excited about that, and also get to see my family again.
Will catch up later, think that is all for now.
September 13, 2007
Guess I fell behind updating yet again. Well so much new is going on. I am pleased to announce first that I am finally getting married !!!! The date is Friday August 22, 2008. I will be getting married up north with my family. The theme is going to be White and Red Roses.
I am now 28 years old, just had a birthday, and also celebrated my 6 year anniversary.
The boys are in school, Kedin Kindergarden, and Justin in 2nd Grade. Both of them have gotten off to a great start.
Shayla is really talking up a storm now, and loves to sing and dance. She is finally into the baby thing, but mostly likes the dolls to use them as a weapon to get her brother's cars..... go figure !!!
I have taken up a new hobby..... rasing Fancy guppies. I found out up north while with my mother the aquarium relaxes me, and it is also something that my mother as well as my grandmother did, so I am carring the trudition. It is alot of fun,. but not as easy as I thought it would be. Tim has even gotten alittle into it with me, so it is noce to have something that we both can sit back and enjoy.
Tim is doing good, as always ...working his butt off. He has been running all over the place, but over all doing very well.
Thursday June 28, 2007
Today is Kedin's 5th Birthday.....we all decided that while we was up north away from Daddy we was not going to do anything for his birthday, and just have a party when we get home. I go today to get a mini evaluation, and see if I am bi polor, and what can be done..... I am not really sure what all is going to be done really.....lol.
Being away from Tim is starting to take a toll on me, and the kids too I think. We can still have fun, but he yet to leave my mind. I have tried to keep to the same rutine that i do at home, and do the same things i do at home.... just seems to make things better by being away and seems to work. He seems to be doing fine wiothout us, think he is enjoying the break, but makes sure we are all ok.
The kids have been having a blast.... there is always other kids to play with, and Nanny is always a ball.... so this is nice change for them, and I think has done us all alot of good.
I will update more when i have more to say.
Monday June 25, 2007
So much has happen in such a short amount of time. I am in WV right now with my kids, staying with my mom. Went through a bad depression, and could not get help in florida so am here getting the professinal help I feel that I need. I have put my modeling on the back burner for now. Tim is back at home tending to the house, and working, and I miss him so much. The kids are having a blast though.
Will keep more updated soon.
Wensday June 13, 2007
Well my baby is officially 2 years old now. She was so confussed about what was going on....lol... we gave her the cake to blow out the candles, and she just looked like she was wondering why we had fire on the cake. She got a water baby, potty chair, 2 night gowns, and a gift card.
I have been taking her to the potty all day with me, and finally she went pee in it.... I was so thrilled I grabbed her up, not relizing she was not done yet.....lol....what a mess to clean up I had!
We have alot of things going on right now, and might be kind of kit and miss.... I will try and update as much as I can.
Tuesday June 12, 2007
Today is my babygirl's birthday. She is now a whole 2 years old....man has time flied since she was born. We are not doing anything big, just a cake and a couple of presents is all. We have been all weekend, and yesterday spring cleaning in June... we are alwasy late on this stuff....lol.... so we are just wore out.
Both boys are moving a grade up in school. I decided not to send Kedin to summer school, and just let him enjoy the summer since it was not a have to that he go.
Tim has been really working hard. Stress has been getting the best of him, be he is still very devoted to the company, and doing all that he can to make everyone's life around work easier.
I will update more after today, just not to much happening right now.
Wow it has been soooooo long since I have updated. The kids are all good, Justin is doing ok in school, could do better but the furst grade is always a tough one. Kedin will be going into Kindergarden at the begging of the year.... and is talking so much. Shayla is going into her two's phase, it is great !
I have gotten back into modeling, not so sure how well that is going to go since I have about every odd aginst me, but it is a shoot.
Tim well....he is the same as always.
Monday December 5, 2006
As you can see I started all over with my stories page. Somehow I managed to mess the whole thing up, and tried to save all the old stories, but it was a loss.... so here we are all brand new.
I am so sorry for not updating my website for so long, but I have just been so busy. I promise I will try and keep it updated for now on.
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