Welcome to LUCAS Land!

October 9, 2009- I know it's been a while (again) since my last update, but there just never seems to be enough hours in the day. Between working, helping out with my Mom and Dad and Grandma, spending time with Lucas and doing things like cleaning cooking and decorating, it's a wonder I have time to sleep! School has been going well, but of course I count the mintues to 3:00, days to our next day off, and I am definitely counting the months to summer! The sad thing is that as much as I want time to pass quickly, I want my time with and Lucas' "babyhood" to last forever..It just amazes me to see how quickly he is growing and how much he learns each and every day. He even had his first phone conversation with me today..TWICE! I talked to him during my lunch hour, when he told me he had cake and was playing with his scooper. And then this evening when I spoke with him he told me he wanted to bake cookies for school with me (he loves to put the ingredients in our standing mixer and turn it on)..It was enough to break my heart! I just wish I could be with him every moment of the day...

We are also so super excited about Halloween! Lucas is really getting excited and loved putting up our "punkins" and "monsters"! He also knows how to say trick or treat, and understands that he will be getting candy. We also have almost enough books to read a different one every night during the month of October, yes that many!...I can't even begin to explain how excited I am about Christmas...Lucas knows that Santa is watching and that he has to be a "good boy" for Santa to come!

His days are spent having fun with my Mom and Dad. Lots of time outside, lots of time playing, and of course lots of love! He likes to take his scoopers outside and play in the dirt with them. He also likes to go up the block to our neighbor's house and check out the monsters (blow-up decorations). He then has lunch with my dad everyday and they watch Thomas the Tank Engine. Lunch usually consists of bologna or ham and HOO HOO (Yoo Hoo)! Not my first choice, but I think he'd be eating it anyway, so why argue? Weekends are always busy, but wonderful.

Lucas has started Kindermusik class as well. Our teacher, Mr. Mark, has the patience of a sait as there are 5 boys and 2 girls, ALL 2, in the class. The first three weeks have been tough, but I think Lucas is getting the hang of it. He likes singing and playing with instruments, so hopefully, he will enjoy this experience. We play the CD's in the car, and read our Kindermusik book every night, after our Halloween book, but before Stinky Face (our favorite)!

Of course, into every life a little rain must fall, and ours is no exception. Sadly, on September 30 our beloved ferret Maxi passed away. We knew she was sick, and that her passing was inevitable, but it is still so sad. It seems that each time one of them passes, a little piece of our old life goes with them. We were all so happy in our little apartment on 10th Street. We would never trade Lucas for anything, but it was a wonderful time in our life, and sometimes, we do miss it. Lucas knows that Maxi went to heaven, but doesn't quite understand that she isn't coming back. He looks for her every day, and keeps asking for her too. A terrible lesson to learn at any age..

Lucas is also showing some interest in the medical field as well (hahaha). He helps me change the dressings on my Dad's foot every night. He hands me the supplies as I need them and says "Check". Lucas picks out the tape, the wrap, the cream, and bandages. It's very sweet, and evety time we do it he tells my Dad "All Better"! Those two are just goofy for each other...

September 13, 2009- Just a quick update saying the first week of school went well, and hey, only 177 school days to go! GG celebrated her 93rd birthday on Friday, and was in great spirits at her party. Lucas is of course, growing like a weed, and we love every minute with him..

September 7, 2009- It can truly be said that Labor Day is, without doubt, my absolute least favorite holiday. After today, my leisurely days of spending almost every moment with Lucas are over for quite some time. It seems that with each passing year, going back to work becomes more and more difficult. I am blissfully happy every day when I am with him, and while I am fortunate enough to have a great schedule and no commute, as well as lots of time off, it's just not the same. I can't cuddle in bed in the morning watching Sesame Street, we can't have lunch outside, or go to the zoo whenever we feel like it. I do love my job and my co-workers, but certainly, they can't hold a candle to Lucas. He's growing so quickly and learns something new each and every day..sometimes each and every hour! I just don't want to miss a moment because I know soon enough, I'll be packing his backpack for school! (OMG, where are the Kleenex?!?)

This summer, Lucas has become my little buddy more then ever! He helps me cook, clean, he kisses my boo-boos, and loves to read and sing to me. He makes himself and me laugh hysterically..We have had so much fun, from our trips to vacation, to his birthday, and even just spending time at home..I smiled for hours every day and very rarely ever felt stressed out! It was such a peaceful and relaxing summer (barring a few moments).

I suppose the sooner we start, the sooner summer will be back. As we all know, time passes too quickly. It is so important that we appreciate each and every moment with those we love, because we can never get those moments back.

August 25, 2009- After getting a few complaints about not updating recently, here you go! Ok. not complaints, requests, that sounds better! All you need to know from Lucas Land! Lucas if offically two...He had a wonderful party, where he was surrounded by his loving family and friends, delicious good, beautiful weather, and very generous gifts! Lucas is truly a very lucky little boy! This year's theme was a Cowboys..NOT "The Cowboys", like cute little cowboys! But Daddy did wear his jersey, despite Mommy's protests!

Lucas' vocabulary and memory increase every day, he is speaking almost in full sentences, and we are at the point where you can almost have a conversation with him. He knows many colors, animal sounds, can almost count to five, and when he sees two objects together, he can say Mommy, two! In other words, he can recognize a quantity of two! He eats everything from broccoli and corn to pizza and noodles..We are very grateful for that! Lucas has also begun to sing..He doesn't use words in his song, but he can sing the tune to Backyardigans, and Jack's Big Music Show. He also knows the God Bless the Moon song, and Twinkle Twinkle Little Star, Happy Birhtday, and our family's favorite- Sto Lat! LOL It's so funny, because his little body really gets into it. He also loves to help cook and clean as well as take care of the ferrets. He is very comfortable picking them up and playing with them (even at inconveinent times), and he loves to push them around in his shopping cart! We aren't sure if they like it as much as he does, but they do jump out when they are done. Lucas can also tell us when he's tired, hungry, or when he's "done", as in five mintues AFTER we get to the mall! We truly can't believe how much Lucas has grown and how much he knows...I also can't believe that in March I have to register him for pre-school! I can feel my heart breaking even as I type! I know he needs to go and he will learn so much, but it's my little baby..it's truly bittersweet :0(

Aside from that, we've just been enjoying each day and take each day however it comes. Unfortunately, it's been way too hot to really play outside or go to the playground. And when you move as much as Lucas does, you get overheated pretty quickly. But somedays Lucas is content to just hang out around home, and play in the sink, play with his trucks or play-doh. He also loves spending time with Grandpa! Lucas spends hours downstairs with him almost every day. They even have lunch together. They are so good for each other, and love each other to pieces. Lucas asks for Grandpa almost as soon as he gets up, and gets so excited when he hears his voice..It's a beautiful relationships for sure.

I go back to work in two weeks, and I'm already sad about it. I know I shouldn't be, since I just had two and half weeks off, but it's so nice to have only one thing to focus on every day. It's nice to be at home and thinking about home. Usually, when I'm at work, I'm thinking about Lucas. And thoughts of work always pop into my head when I'm home. I'm glad I have this time off, but I'd much rather be home with Lucas. Of course, I'd like to go to the bathroom by myself, or check my e-mail during the day, but Lucas won't be two forever, and I want to enjoy every moment I can with my favorite little guy!

Thanks for checking on us! Be sure to check picture page for lots of new photos! And keep checking back, because there are many new photos that still need to be added! I'm not even thru July yet! :0)

August 4, 2009- Still no pictures! I'm really getting annoyed, but what can you do? Worse things can happen right? We have been so busy and having fun every single day! Lucas learns more and more words every day, and I'm surprised at how much he remembers..Just today, we passed by his doctor's office, and he said "Doctor, pop pop"...which is Lucas-ese for lollipop! So funny, glad he remembers that and not the shots..

Last week we spent a wonderful week on Long Beach Island..Thank you to Aunt Christina and Uncle Rob for letting us stay at their house for the week..the best part is that it is child-proofed and full of toys..so thank you Maxwell for sharing your toys with Lucas! Lucas loved the beach and the water..a little too much I think, he would have run right in if I let him. He's definitely my little boy in that respect. Now if Jim teaches him to fish from the beach, that will make us all very happy! We also visited Story Book Land in Cardiff New Jersey. It was wonderful! I think everyone should go there, Lucas had a blast, it was clean, well priced, and lots of fun! It is one of New Jersey's hidden treasures for sure..We can't wait to go back!

Aside from that, we just play outside and go in the pool alot. It's wonderful! We are rested, relaxed, and having lots of fun!

Lucas also wants me to tell you that he has a new baby cousin! My cousin David and his wife Martha had a little girl last night around 10pm. She weighed in at 7lbs 2oz and measured 18 inches long. We're not sure of her name yet, but we'll let you know. That gives GG 6 great-grandchildren! 4 boys and 2 girls!

We hope everyone is enjoying their summer as much as we are! Take care, and as always, thanks for checking on us!

July 26, 2009- I know it's been quite some time since my last update, but to be honest, I've just been having too much fun! Our days are spent outside, in the pool, or on special trips..I have many photos, however, I am still not able to upload them to this site. Jim is working on it, so we'll see what happens..As of the Friday, July 24, I have taken 205 pictures..Just in July! We've been to the beach, the Land of Make Believe, Wild West City, and Lucas has even started Art Class! It's been a wonderful summer, and I truly cherish every moment, even when Lucas is having a "terrible two" moment, hour, or day! LOL I know this won't last forever, and the terrible two's take a back seat to the tormented teens in my opinion. So I am taking advantage of being Lucas' favorite person, because I know some day I won't! :0(

Lucas is quite the chatter box as well...He has too many words to list now, and in my opinion, just a few thoughts short of being able to hold a complete conversation! Hard to believe, that just two years ago, I was bearly able to sleep because of this little person growing within me, now I have a real live human being to actually talk to! It's amazing....He's seems he learns more and more words with each passing minute. Lucas is also the type of child where you once you tell him what something is, he knows it, and uses that word in the right context. Lucas knows he's going to be two, and can tell you and show you, but I was unsure of whether or not he knew what "2" was..But the other day, we were at Wild West City, he saw two birds sitting on a fence, and said "Mommy, Two!" I was blown away, and I don't think Jim would have believed me if he didn't hear it himself!

Well, we are on our way to Long Beach Island today. I'm sure Lucas will love staying in a house that overlooks "wawa", his favorite thing in the world! I'm sure it's going to be a blast, exhausting, but a blast none the less!

As always, thanks for checking on us, and check back soon and we start to prepare for TWO! XOXOXO

July 5, 2009- We are still experiencing technical difficulties, so still no pictures. But please check out my facebook page, they are all on there!

Yesterday and today were absolutely lovely days...The kind of days you wish would never end, and that you would love to re-live over and over again. We spent the 4th of July at Mel and Joe's, and Lucas had a great time playing with Jack and Drew! It's so wonderful that they are all the same age. Lucas spent lots of time in the "wa-wa" with Daddy, and loved to jump (ie- Jim throwing him as high as he could). Then once we got home, Lucas was in bed before the sun was down! Today was spent at home, doing stuff around the house, and just being outside and enjoying the weather! We concluded our day today by attending Bayonne's Fire Works display. Of course, there was a little bit of excitement..There is a playground in the park where we watched the fireworks. And since we arrived an hour early to get a good spot, Lucas and I went to the playground for a bit. All of a sudden, I turned around, realized we were all alone, and that the gate had been locked! Yep, we were trapped in the playground...Jim called police headquarters, and within a few minutes, TWO police cars showed up with the lights going (no sirens)...They were apologizing up and down, and making sure we were ok...To tell you the truth, we were great! What was there to be upset about? I was hysterical, I just thought it so funny! About 10 minutes later, a DPW worker showed up and "rescued" us. Truly a great story to tell Lucas when he is older. But the only thing I thought of was why don't they call last call in the playground? They do it in bars, but not playgrounds, where there are lots of little places for little people to hide? A little scary, what if it had been a kid had been in there alone?

Shortly after that, the fireworks started, and since this was Lucas' first fireworks extravaganza, we were unsure of what to expect. He tried to climb into me when they first started, and he put my hands over his ears. But as the show went on, he started to cheer louder than anyone else! When it was over, he was clapping and yelling MORE!!!! Truly a priceless moment.

I can only say that Jim, Lucas, and I cuddled on a blanket, watching fireworks on a perfect summer night was nothing but bliss. A feeling I hope everyone can experience in their lifetime. During those moments, nothing mattered except that moment. I am so grateful to be able to have these experiences with the people I love most...They are moments I will always treasure...

Keep checking back for updates, and hope for a quick resolution to the picture situation, boy do I have some goodies!

July 3, 2009- Well, I know it's been a while, but of course we have been very busy, and Lucas certainly does keep us on our toes. We have done so much in the past few weeks, that's it is difficult to keep up!

Let's start with June 13...My Mom and I went to see New Kids on the Block at the PNC Center in Holmdel. Not only did we meet Joe McIntyre (not my fave, but I'll take it), but Jonathan Knight (my fave), danced right in front of us, and blew my mom a kiss! It was a magical night, and one I will forever cherish. I felt like I was 14 again, but now able to appreciate the magic of the evening!

June 14 we enjoyed cousin Caroline's dance receital..Hard to believe that my little princess is 5 1/2 and going to first grade! Where has the time gone?

Of course, June 21 was Father's Day, and we enjoyed the day at home with my Dad! Lucas really loves is Grandpa, to the point where he learned how to go down the steps by himself to see him! He calls his all day long, and they spend hours playing together in the basement. They are definite best buds! It's so cute to watch too, but I think Lucas might be eclipsing my spot as my Dad's favorite Giants fan!

June 22 was perhaps the best day of the year...the LAST day of school! While I did really love my class this year, nothing compares with knowing that every minute of the day can be spent with my special little guy. I cherish these times with him because I know that in the not too distant future, he'll have better things to do than to hang with Mommy. So, our days are spent outside, getting dirty, staying up a little later, and not rushing thru anything we do. If Lucas wants to spend 10 mintues looking at a rock, then that's what we do..if he wants to pull bark off the trees, ok, that's fine! It's so wonderful to not have plans or any where to be every day..Lucas has all the time he needs to explore and learn, and believe me, he picks up on everything! He has learned about bugs, the moon and stars, and lots of other things that I never thought he would know at almost 2. He amazes me each and every day! His new story now is how Mommy rolled up a newspaper and hit a bug with it..He's more than happy to how you what he does, and laughs hysterically!

June 28th was spent with Lucas' cousins Austin and Emma (who's he's been calling for all week).. We had a great time in the pool together and hanging out in the yard.. It's a shame we don't live closer, because Lucas really enjoys being with them! Once Austin and Emma left, we packed Lucas up, picked up our friend Kaitlin, and headed to the Meadowlands Fair to meet the Real Housewives of New Jersey! They were all so super nice, and Caroline espcially loved Lucas! She couldn't stop talking to him, and he gave her a high five. Dina was there as well, and was wearing ladybugs..He kept pointing to her and yelling "Bugs"..she thought it was so cute (and it was)!

Today, our family (me, Jim, and Lucas) went to the Central Park Zoo. And while it was small, we did have a lovely time! Lucas especially loved any of the animals that had water near them..The penguins, sea lions, seals, and polar bears! He was such a good boy, and for the first time ever (and I mean ever) fell asleep in his stroller..It was very hot, and he spent most of the day wearing his magic backpack (ie- leash and harness), and running around! We all had a blast!

Tomorrow we will be going to Melanie and Joe's for their 4th of July BBQ..We are looking forward to it, and know Lucas will be thrilled to play in the "wawa" of their pool.

I am cherishing each day at home with my precious little angel, and want it to last forever! We have lots of great stuff planned for the summer..so keep checking back for updates and photos...Enjoy each and every day, life is to short not to appreciate the things that are really important.

PS- We are experiencing technical difficulties, so I can't add pictures at this time..Rest assured, we are working on it, and will had pictures as soon as possible! You can check my Facebook page for some recent pics! Thanks

June 11, 2009- I know it's been a very long time since I've updated. But my Dad has been in the hospital for about four weeks now, and things have been very hectic. It's very difficult to work all day, visit my Dad for a while at the hospital, and take care of a VERY active two year old! I'm feeling slightly motivated tonight, so I figured it was time for an update!

Lucas is amazing! He learns more and more every day, and astounds us with the things he picks up on. For example, just the other day, we were passing by the hospital, and Lucas starts to shout Grandpa, Grandpa..he knows that that is where Grandpa is. That's just one example, and there are so many others! His vocabulary expands every day, and he communicates so very well. I can't beleive my little baby is almost two years old. The amount of development is incredible, and the hugely vast differences...I love this age, but I really miss my little mush!

Of course, into every life a little rain must fall. My Dad has had several surgeries in the past few weeks, all in an attmept to save his leg. Just this past Wednesday, they removed half of his foot. If this doesn't work, he will lose his leg below the knee. We are all exhausted, but somehow, we manage to go on. Someone always has it worse, but it has been very difficult. Lucas lights up our our lives, and always make things better. My Dad really looks forward to seeing him every day (I'm sure the nurses, and patients don't, but he is entertaining). Laughter is truly the best medicine, and I think that Lucas' antics are really helping my Dad to heal!

Lucas has also had a cough and runny nose, attributed to nothing more than allergies. Had his first bout of pink eye (which he generously passed on to me during Memorial Day weekend), and then got his first bloody nose yesterday. He was climbing on a chiar to get to the candy in Grandma's house, the chair slid back, and BOOM he broke his fall with his nose. Jim took him to Dr. Serafino's office, and he's fine. It looks worse than it is! Thankfully I wasn't home, because, knowing me, I probably would have called 911..LOL I'm just terrified of something happening to Lucas, and I think I worry too much sometimes.

I'm desparately looking foward to the summer, although, I really will miss my class. They were a wonderful bunch of kids, that I consider myself privledged to have taught! But I really do need a break. I feel like I don't get much time with Lucas because of going back and forth to the hospital all of the time. We'll see...we'll just make the best of it like we do all of the time!

Keep checking back for updates! And please include my Dad in your prayers every day..he really needs them!

May 25, 2009- Not too long of an update today. I just wanted to stop by and change the site a little bit. No new pics today..Can you believe it? Keep checking back, I'll be sure to update soon.

Please continue to pray for my Dad. He had a femoral bypass this past week, and will have the rest of his toes removed this week, this is all in an effort to save his leg. It's been very difficult these past few weeks trying to get everything accomplished. Somehow we're mangaging, but it's been extremely tough.

May 9, 2009- Happy Mother's Day Everyone! I can't believe the time has come for me to celebrate my 2nd Mother's Day. I'm so grateful for my Little Lucas, he's the best present I could ever ask for, for any holiday...

Sorry it's been so long since my last update, but as usual, things have been very busy. Unfortunately, they haven't been great things keeping us busy. My dad was released from the hospital almost two weeks after Easter. So needless to say, with daily trips to the hospital, it didn't leave much time for anything else.

We also lost a very dear friend of ours on April 26. Anyone who has ever been to ANY of our parties, knows our wonderful friends Kathy and Larry Czander. Many of you also know that Larry had some chronic health problems, and had a liver transplant about 5 years ago. Larry passed due to complications from a variety of factors relating to the anti-rejection medications. I've known the Czander's practically my whole life, and the loss is very difficult to deal with. Kathy, Kaitlin, and Nicolas have done amazing, but their lives are forever changed, a piece will always be missing. My mom and I were honored to read the intercessions at Larry's funeral. Needless to say, Larry will be missed...I am so thankful that we got to spend Easter with him. It just worked out that way, and I am so happy we spent that time with him. Please pray for the Czander's.

My Dad is doing so-so. He has to make daily trips to the hospital for IV antibiotics, and we still don't know what is going to happen to his foot. After having to change his dressings recently, I don't think it can heal. The damage is very extensive, and there is alot of dead tissue. We can hope for the best, but I'm really not optimistic, which is very unlike me. The Podiatrist has said that once you lose one leg, you lose the other within five years...we're only barely at a year and a half. It's been difficult, and between Larry and my Dad, I've been very down...

Now on to Senor Stinky Face AKA Lucas...He is growing like weed, and continues to amaze us every day. Jim and I got the surprise of our life on April 24 when, as we were sitting down to a kid-less dinner in our living room, we heard the pitter patter of little feet, and a giggle. We turned around, and there he was, as proud as could be...He climbed out of his crib, and was very eager to show us how he did it too! So, Lucas is now in a toddler bed. It was tough going in the beginning, but we changed our bedtime routine a little bit, and it's working out. I just can't believe he's in a bed! He looks like such a big boy. We also went to the Liberty State Park Earth Day festival, and spent some time with Lucas' BFF Eamon (and Uncle Sean and Aunt Gen). It's so great to see the boys play with each other now, they finally realize there is another person about their size to play with. Of course, there has also been lots of outside time and trips to the park (when it's not raining)....I know this summer will be exahausting, but I'm so looking forward to it!

Lucas can also differentiate between four colors or so, say the word green, and is showing a vastly improving memory. For example, a balloon got caught in my Mom's ceiling fan and she needed a broom to get it out. Lucas can tell you the story (in Lucas-eze)...He says balloon, boom boom, mop, and points to the fan..and this happened a few weeks ago. Lucas also asks for his favorite book every night, and remembers that the birthday cake in the book is made out of bananas. He's turning into a little boy.

Of course, no little boy with be complete without a pinch of mischeif and a dash of sass. Lucas loves to open the fridge, and even spilled a WHOLE gallon of iced tea, just as I was about to walk out of the door for work. It's a constant struggle to keep him out of it, we have yet to find a lock that works well enough. Lucas also wants to play in the sink constantly. He'll pull a chair over and do it himself now, and when you tell him no, watch out...we go to Tantrum Town! He's truly embracing his terrible two's early...sigh...He definitely has a personality all his own. I know I'll miss this as I see him getting ready to go to the prom, or when I hear him ask for my car keys...That Iced-Tea will be a fond memory, and one that I will want back..Although I didn't think so at the time.

Thanks for checking in on us! Hopefull things will calm down, and I'll be able to update more often. Again, please pray for the Czanders, and while you are at it, my Dad too! We really appreciate it. Enjoy the spring..maybe it will stop raining soon.

April 17, 2009- Lucas is 20 months old today! We spend today at the Turtle Back Zoo in West Orange, and despite large crowds, it was a wonderful day. Lucas spent most of the day out of his stroller and walking, he also followed directions incredibly well and never once tried to run away. He was really fascinated by all of the animals, and we visited the cow about 5 times because he kept asking to go back by saying "MMMOOO"...He also loved meeting all of the birds and playing with the sheep.

These are the kind of days I wish could last forever. The weather was perfect, and I loved every second of spending time with my sweet little boy. I can't believe that 20 months have passed since I had him, and without hesitation, I can say they have been the best 20 months of my life. What's funny is that I can barely remember what I did without him in my life. How did I spend spring break? Where did we go? I just love being with Lucas and seeing his reactions to things!

April 16, 2009- Well, for those of you who may not know, Grandpa Bill is back in the hospital with yet another foot infection. He has lost another toe, and has undergone three surgical procedures, including one on Easter Sunday. He had an angiogram done today to help with the circulation in his leg. However, there are a lot of blockages in the ankle which compromise blood flow; these can not be fixed because the vessels in the ankle are too small. According to the surgeon, he stands about a 30% chance of needing further amputation. Needless to say, we are all just so upset, just when we thought we were in the clear, this happens. All we can ask for is that you keep alll of us in your thoughts and prayers. Having family and friends like all of you make things like this so much more bearable.

Despite the setback, we managed to have a lovely Easter even though our plans changed. We went to our friends the Czander's here in Bayonne. We really had a good time, and Lucas had a blast playing outside, and being the center of attention.Unfortunatley, I feel like I haven't done as much with him this week as I wanted to because of my Dad. Tomorrow, however, we are going to take advantage of the beautiful weather and go to the zoo, so be sure to check back for pictures!

We are also happy to announce that Lucas is now pacifier free! He was never really into his paci, just at night to go to sleep, but earlier this week, when I couldn't find it before bed, we gave it a try and it worked great! (we haven't gotten rid of them just yet, but SSSSHHHH..don't tell Lucas). Lucas has also learned the words work, milk (which sounds like molk), and walk. There is another word too, but I just can't remember it..LOL

April 10, 2009- Just a quick update to let you know that just today Lucas learned two new words AND put his breakfast dishes in the sink by himself without me asking! The words are dough (as in regard to play doh, his second favorite thing to do after playing in the sink), and choo- choo (as in regard to his Fisher Price Easter train that the bunny dropped off early)! Lucas has been putting his cups, plates, forks and spoons in the sink when asked, but this morning, as soon as he finished his waffle, he put his plate and fork in the sink without me asking! I couldn't believe and he was SO proud of himself!

I am really looking forward to the next 10 days of being at home, and as far as I am concerned, summer can not come soon enough!

April 5, 2009- Happy Spring! But it certainly does not feel like spring...Everything here is Lucas land is going great! We have been able to enjoy some wonderful days at the park, which Lucas really loves, and are eagerly anticipating the arrival of the Easter Bunny! We're sure the Bunny will bring Lucas many wonderful things, and I wouldn't doubt it if he even went a little overboard..HAHA When you ask Lucas what a bunny does, he happily answers HOP HOP HOP! It's so much fun preparing for the holidays with Lucas in mind. Even today, as we were making Crusciki's, Lucas was able to be involved and have fun. What's even better, is that he got to share that experience with his Mommy, Grandma, AND Great Grandma! Of course, Lucas went to meet the Easter Bunny and did very well with him.

Aside from Lucas learning Hop, hop hop, his new words include walk (as in get me out of the stroller and let me go), cheese, and the beginnings of please and thank you. Of course we feel it is important to start with good manners as soon as possible. Lucas uses please when we remind him too, and his getting very good at saying thanks (which is really so cute)! Lucas has also added a cow sound to his reptoire of animal noises that now includes a dog, cat, dinosaur, and monkey. He just can't seem to get the jist of bird saying tweet tweet, he can point to and recognize birds, and loves to throw bread to them (even non stale bread), but no tweet tweet.

Lucas has also been getting ready for the summer by practicing his swimming lessons! I have taken him to a beautiful indoor pool herer in Bayonne for the past two weeks, and I literally had to pry him off of the ladder this week to get him out of the pool. Not only was he holding on for dear life, but he also was screaming NOOOOO at the top of his lungs. After the lifeguard blew her wistle, he let go and stopped (she was a former student, and helped me out)! He really loves it and it wipes him out! Plus, he gets extra time in the bath, which is always a bonus!

Of course, I am looking forward to spring break next week. We don't have any real plans, which is just the way I like it. The only plan I have is to spend as much time with Lucas as I can (and count the days to summer vacation)! We'll be sure to keep you posted!

March 25, 2009- Not much of an update today! I just addes some pictures of Lucas enjoying his second St. Patrick's Day Parade. The past few days have been very busy, and I just haven't had the time to update.

Lucas' word of the week is HOT! It is adorable, he says HOT HOT, and then blows on whatever it is to make it cool. I can't believe how much he picks up on, he never ceases to amaze me!

Lucas also wants to walk up the steps by himself, which he has been doing for months, but now he wants to do it like an adult~ one foot in front of the other! He doesn't realize that he has to do it while holding on to someone's hands. My little guy has quite the independent streak, and usually won't give in until he gets really frustrated..poor Lucas. But I guess, we've all had to learn a few lessons the hard way. Lucas will too, and when he falls, I'll be there to pick him and help him try again..with a few hugs and kisses thrown in for good luck!

March 17, 2009- Top o'the morning to ya! Lucas' second St. Patick's Day was nice and quiet. He had fun with his friends at Grandma's house, make a beautiful shamrock that has gone right into his scrapbook, and then had some Guinness with Daddy..All in all a perfect day! Lucas has also turned 19 months old today, we are getting closer to 2 each and every day.. More importantly, we are getting closer to June 22, the LAST day of school!!!!! I'm really looking forward (as I always do) to being home every day with my special little guy. I miss him so much when I am at work every day.

Check back this weekend for photos of Lucas enjoying his second St. Patick's Day Parade!

March 16, 2009- Hi everyone...Not much of an update today! Just added some St. Patrick's Day photos, changed the theme and music. The background music is the Unicorn Song by the Irish Rovers. In October 2005, a young man by the name of Michael Romano passed away after a seven year battle with cancer, he was a student in my school. The Unicorn Song was his favorite song for his favorite holiday..so in honor of our special friend Michael and his family, we have chosen the Unicorn Song! Whenever I think of St. Patrick's Day, I think of Michael and the Unicorn Song...Happy St. Patrick's Day Michael!

Lucas continues to grow and develop almost every day. He is eating totally by himself, using his fork, 'poon (as he calls it), and his hands, which seem to be the most efficient. This is another one of those things that makes me realize he won't need me forever..and it does make me kind of sad. I'm sad right up until he starts throwing his food off of the plate to show that he's finished. He has also become quite the artist, he loves standing at his easel and coloring on the paper. I know what you are thinking, and YES, so far he has kept it on the paper. I'll be sure to invite you all over for a painting party when he doesn't!

I also did some summer shopping for him this weekend, and I can't believe I am buying 24 months! It seems like yesterday, he was wearing a 3-6 month outfit to Dr. Serafino's for the first time, and he was swimming in it! My goodness, it has just gone so quickly! I am thankful that I do cherish every moment with him, and try hard to keep track of his developments as much as I can! I think a lot of people get so caught up in every day business and such that they don't take time to enjoy these small moments. I just want to remember what Lucas did when as he grows up, so writing it down on this website is the way I do that...I want to cherish his childhood...I want to look back in 10 years and say...WOW, I'm glad I wrote that down!

We hope you all have a wonderful St. Patrick's Day, and find the pot of gold at the end of your rainbow! To end with a quote, "may your blessings outnumber the shamrocks of Ireland"...

March 7, 2009- I know it's been a little while since my last update, but to be honest, there isn't much to report. We are just enjoying every day with Lucas and marvel at his never ending development. My birthday came and went, with Jim and I spending a very nice dinner out alone. We were all set to go see a movie too, but at the end of dinner, we just wanted to come home and see Lucas. My birthday this year also happened to coincide with Fat Tuesday, and Lucas was lucky to attend Grandma Barb's Annual Fat Tuesday parade. I hear it's just as fun as New Orleans, minus the shanigans, and it's over by 3:30 pm. Lucas didn't want to wear his beads, so his buddies Katelyn and Natalie wore his instead. He did like shaking his maraca and tambourine.

Lucas, once again, got his ashes on Ash Wednesday, and promptly tried to wipe them off of himself, and me. He was a very good boy in church. I think he is finally getting the hang of what proper church behavior is. He does walk around a bit, but knows that he has to be relatively quiet and does it, most of the time :0)

We loved our snow day this week, and loved the really warm weather as well. I was kind of disappointed that we got a snow day in March. Most schools celebrate the 100th day of school, and my school is no exception, but when the 100th day passes, I feel like we are in the home stretch. At this point, I just want June to be here, and I want to be home for the summer. I do love my job, and I have the best class of children ever, but I love being home with Lucas even more. Especially now, since he's my little buddy. I really do relish the days when I'm not in a hurry to get out of the house and the only thing I'm thinking of is how to spend the day at home. That being said, there's nothing I can do it, and we all enjoyed a well deserved and needed pajama day! Lucas rode his zebra, drew on his writing board, played in the sink, read books with Mommy, and of course, played Play Doh, his favorite thing! It was just one of those days to take it easy and relax, and as far as I am concerned, you can never have too many of those types of days.

Today, we were lucky enough to attend our friend Aiden's first birthday! It was a Barnyard Bash, so of course, Lucas went dressed for the occasion in his overalls, flannel shirt, and bandana. Aiden's Mommy and Daddy made an incredible barn cake (see photos). Lucas loved spending the afternoon outside and played to his heart's content. He blew bubbles, went on a slide, in a car, and even used some little golf clubs! But I think Lucas' favorite part of the day was his chocolate cupcake. Lucas ate every last morsel, and had the face to prove it. He even fell asleep in the car with his last bite mushed in his hands. It was so adorable! When he finally fell asleep, he must have been thinking about playing leap frog, because that's exactly what he looked like.

I just can't believe how much he is learning every day. We are in the process of working on colors, and he know them fairly well. He has really taken an interest in coloring with crayons, and does it every day. We just have to practice remembering that crayons are for paper, not tables, floors, or refrigerators. Thank goodness those people at Crayola are so smart! He is also following 2 and 3 step commands, and mostly eats by himself. He knows how to use a fork and spoon, but his hands are usually faster. He eats with both hands, one with a fork or spoons, and the other just plain old finger food. Lucas has an amazing appetitite and loves trying new foods. We couldn't be more proud of him!

We are looking forward to attending Lucas' second St. Patrick's Day Parade, and seeing the Easter Bunny again! But we will be sure to enjoy each and every day, and cherish every moment...He'll only be this age once, and I don't want to miss a thing, time just passes too quickly!

February 17, 2009- HAPPY 2ND HALF BIRTHDAY LUCAS WILLIAM!!! That's right everyone, Lucas is officially half way to being two. Honestly, Lucas has his moments where is already a terrible two..he can have quite a temper when he doesn't get what he wants, and is constantly trying to bite if he is upset. We are working on it, but our doctor said this is all developmentally appropriate. He knows what he wants, but doesn't know what to do if he doesn't get it. I guess it's all in a day's work for a Mommy of a toddler.

Lucas spent his half birthday with his friends at Grandma's house. He wore the special half birthday shirt that Mommy made, and then had a great half birthday party with Mommy, Daddy, Grandma, and Grandpa! Lucas once again had a half birthday party hat, half birthday plates and napkins! Of course, no half birthday cake would be complete without half birthday cake. It didn't look pretty, but it was delicious. We sang happy half birthday to Lucas, and his cake had one and a half candles on it! Lucas was also treated to some very nice presents from Mommy and Daddy, and Grandma and Grandpa. Gma and Gpa got Lucas a magnet set for the fridge that looks like a fridge! It will help Lucas to learn his letters, foods, and colors (although he know those pretty well). Mommy and Daddy got Lucas a Sesame Street tool belt (we figure he could help around the house), and a Sesame Street book with a real button, snap, and zipper in it. Lucas had a wonderful day that ended with snuggles from Mommy and Jack's Big Music Show!

I've been saying for quite some time that Lucas seems to be learning something new every day. And today was no exception, he did 3 new things today! As we were telling Lucas we were going to sing Happy Birthday, he blurted out Happy! We asked him again, and he said it again..so we can now add Happy to Lucas' vocabulary. Instead of a book tonight, Lucas got yet another treat and watched "Jack" before bed. One of the songs fetured included loud and soft songs. As they got to the soft part of the song, they put their fingers to their lips and said sssshhh, and what did Lucas do? Yep, he ssshhh'd right along with them. I couldn't believe it! Then, during one of the Lori Berkner songs, they count backwards from 5 to 1, and as they got to one, he showed us one with his finger! Lucas has known how to do 1 since his REAL birthday, but he has never done that so randomly..Amazing

In looking back at the past 18 months, I can not believe how much has changed. How my total focus in life has changed, and how NOTHING is more important than Lucas. My life revolves around my boy, and I woulnd't want it any other way~he is my life. It's hard to believe that something weighing less than a Thanksgiving turkey, who does not have the ability to speak, or even hold their head up can change things so profoundly. It pains me to know that all children do not get the same love and attention that Lucas does. If your children don't get that from you, who will they get it from? I just feel so blessed to spend every day with Lucas. We all love him more with each passing day and are mesmorized by his ever increasing developments.

PS- I can't think of anything important going on for the next few days, so there may not be any new updates..but you never know, everyday on 36th Street is an adventure! But you have to admit, I have been making good on my resolution..